The List: 101 Skills Every Girl Should Master Before Entering the 9th Grade

Update: "The List" was recently featured by Hermene Hartman, Editor of N'Digo Magazine during her daily segment, "Views From the Heart" on Chicago's V103.
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There's no getting around it. Mastery of life, social and communication skills are critically important to the self development of young ladies. The wonderful thing is that girls don't have to master them all at once. We can develop these skill-sets over time.

Here is our list of 101 Skills Every Girl Should Master Before Entering the 9th Grade. Some are tasks, some of skills....all are based upon and neatly woven into Girls Rule! programming for girls ages 7 - 18. Recognizing that all girls do not experience the same adult modeling, instruction or social, life and communication skills modeling, we have designed this list to meet girls where they are, addressing both remedial needs and advanced ones

Before entering the 9th grade, every young lady should be able to:
(Tasks listed are in no particular order and not all inclusive)

1. Respect adults



2. Disagree without being disagreeable



3. Properly groom her nails, hair and body from head to toe



4. Understand what her clothing and personal style choices tell the world about her



5. Hem a skirt/pants



6. Sort and wash clothing



7. Boil an egg



8. Navigate the public transportation system



9. Select the proper undergarment for her outfit



10. Listen to a friend



11. Master her emotions



12. Say no "gracefully"



13. Read a newspaper



14. Plan a meeting or gathering



15. Use a map



16. Answer the phone properly



17. Prepare her own breakfast



18. Say "please" and "thank you"



19. Handle conflict with poise and grace



20. Write a check



21. Set a table for a family or holiday gathering



22. Respect the role of teachers



23. Plan a schedule of weekly activities



24. Set goals



25. Pack her clothes for a three day trip



26. Create a budget



27. Calculate sales tax



28. Dress for her body type



29. Dress appropriately for formal, informal and casual events/activities



30. Properly use eating utensils



31. Make a dinner reservation



32. Read a bus or train schedule



33. Schedule a doctor appointment



34. Properly measure over the counter medication dosages



35. Attend church on their own



36. Complete a job application



37. Speak confidently and clearly



38. Register for summer employment



39. Take a proper telephone message



40. Write a 3 paragraph letter



41. Walk away from an argument



42. Know her clothing measurements



43. Read, write and understand how to use a table of contents



44. Properly count, fold and protect her own money



45. Shop for the best deal



46. Cook a balanced meal



47. Recite a prayer



48. Respect herself in all situations



49. Iron her own clothes



50. Clean out a refrigerator



51. Clean her room



52. Protect herself from an aggressor



53. Select ripe fruits and vegetables



54. Follow written and verbal instructions properly



55. Speak proper English



56. Understand how to read and pay a utility bill



57. Honor her word



58. Call or hail a cab when alone



59. Shop for groceries



60. Change a light bulb



61. Tell the truth



62. Properly dust furniture



63. Baby-sit younger siblings for a day or night



64. Make decisions that honor her body



65. Create a document on a computer



66. Understand formal, information and casual dining etiquette



67. Order breakfast, lunch or dinner from a menu



68. Perform CPR



69. Send a parcel post package



70. Wrap a gift



71. Lead a project or committee



72. Speak publicly



73. Re-sew a button onto a garment



74. Put on nylons without running them



75. Utilize library reference materials



76. Use a Thesaurus



77. Be a contributing team member



78. Resolve conflict non-violently



79. Deal effectively with various personality types



80. Trust and believe in herself



81. Respect others



82. Walk away from gossip



83. Deal with jealousy



84. Own her esteem



85. Navigate challenging situations



86. Open a savings account



87. Send a thank-you note



88. Be a gracious hostess



89. Attend school regularly without incident



90. Give a proper handshake



91. Be a respectful guest



92. Calculate the proper tip on a $25 bill



93. Mail a letter



94. Properly introduce herself to others



95. Understand when to use proper English vs Slang



96. Conduct herself properly at the Theater



97. Navigate social networking sites safely



98. Honor her values



99. Pick friends who enhance her life



100. Properly use a Dictionary



101. Calculate wages, taxes and a paycheck

What other skills do you feel are important for young ladies to master before entering the 9th grade?

Ladon Brumfield
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The Etiquette Imperative Parent ToolKit Series on Divorce and Separation: Separating with Respect and Honor

The frequency of divorce in modern society has not made the process any easier for those involved. The circumstances of separating and breaking off a marriage, however, still call for basic consideration, respect, and honesty.


The following etiquette issues frequently arise during a separation.


Telling others.

A separation is not publicly announced. A couple should explain the situation to family and close friends, and word will spread. If the couple reunites, there is no public announcement.


Names and rings.

The wife continues to use her husband's name (if she has taken it), and both spouses usually continue to wear their wedding rings.


Change of address.

If the separation is lengthy, the spouse who moves out of the home should give his or her new address and phone number to anyone who needs to know, such as an employer.


Social invitations.

The couple usually refuses any invitations addressed to "Mr. and Mrs." If they do attend the same social or business functions, they should behave as normally as possible and not draw others into their problems. Most adults make accommodations for separated couples by not inviting them both to the same social events. So don't get upset if mutual friends fail to include you in a party to which your spouse has been invited. Chances are, the friends are not choosing sides but are trying to avoid a difficult situation for everyone. Your time will probably come.